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Relationships psychologist De Angelis reveals the 6 biggest mistakes women make with men, how to spot - and avoid - the men that will give you the most trouble, men's top twenty turnoffs, and how to get the man you love to open up....

Title : Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know
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ISBN : 9780722535905
Format Type : Paperback
Number of Pages : 280 Pages
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Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know Reviews

  • Fatemeh
    2019-07-06 14:39

    بنظرمن جزو کتابهایی هست که یکبار خوندنش برای همه ی افراد بالای 17 سال خالی از لطف نیست و میتونه مفید باشه.همونطور که از اسمش مشخص هست راجع به روانشناسی رفتاری مردهاست و بیشتر تاکیدش روی روابط پارتنرشیپ هست.همینطور الگوهای از پیش تعیین شده ی رفتاری خیلی از ماها(چه زن و چه مرد)رو خوب توضیح داده و برای تغییرش راهکار ارائه داده.من بعد از خوندن این کتاب خیلی راحت تر تونستم یکسری رفتارهای مردهای اطرافم رو بپذیرم و حتی جاهایی که باعث ناراحتیم شده بودن ببخشمشون و قبول کنم که اون رفتارهای ناخوشایندشون ریشه در خیلی مسائل تربیتی داره و دلیل بدبودنشون نیست.همینطور اشتباهات خودم رو هم شناختم و فهمیدم کجاها باید تغییر کنم.

  • Sheyda Mirlou
    2019-07-09 18:59

    اینجور کتاب‌ها برای دادن دیدی کلی به افراد مفیدن، اما خواننده نباید فراموش کند که وحی منزل نبوده و تک‌تک آدم‌ها با هم تفاوت‌های فراوانی دارند؛ که در تصمیم‌گیری بر مبنای این کتاب در روابطشان حتما باید این نکته را مد نظر داشت.

  • Kimberly
    2019-07-02 11:00

    I learned that I'm not crazy :)

  • Gazelle
    2019-07-03 16:38

    For such a long time I used to tease my mom about reading Barbara De Angelis self-help stuff! And for a longer time reading self-help looked like an impossible task to me ( It still does,but at least I tried!) Not only they seemed like a waste of time but I could never seen any kind of change in self help book lovers attitude and behaviors. But well guess what? A marriage counselor recently recommended me to read Secrets About Men By Barbara! C'mon! Was that a joke? Still to show that I have my mind open to different ideas and also willing to put effort on my relationship I started reading it! (Ok, I know I learned my lesson here,I should never be mean to anyone for reading a book or it gonna happen to me! ) So, as i was going through the book some stuff looked strangely familiar to me! The stories,Ideas and situations was nothing new of course,it is something that you can find in any relationship magazine and web site. But it was not only that. I read these somewhere before! After That Mars and Venus became popular everyone started to write books like this. So to see how much I really tried to help myself with these kind of books I went to check John Gray's page here on Goodreads and what I found made me unable to close my mouth for a minute : OThe amazing relationship experts where in a marriage back in 80's and they got a divorce after a while! So what can we actually learn from that? There marriage was such an awful mess that made both of them a relationship experts? They went through such a terrible times that they decided to help others all around the world to never do the same thing again? Was it about bragging to each-other who can write a book that would sell best? Well, I won't judge. Maybe I am unable to see the point of it, but what can one actually learn from two relationship advisor who could not even get along together by combining all the knowledge they seems to have on marriage and relationships? Is the answer is you can learn from their mistakes? Well in this case I would be able to learn from anyone's mistakes,we don't really need a self help book for that,or do we?

  • Zahra-T
    2019-07-21 15:35

    خوندنش کارآمد بود و حتی ضروری،کتاب مشابهی نخوندم که بخوام باهاش مقایسه کنم ولی مطالبش برخلاف چیزی که فکر می کردم خیلی با فرهنگ ما منافات نداشت.تمومش کردم ولی احتمالاً هرازچندگاهی دوباره بهش سر بزنم.

  • Mostafa Rezaei
    2019-07-22 15:54

    خب کمی قبل از شروع این کتاب شک داشتم که آیا کاره درستی کردم که تصمیم به خوندن این کتاب گرفتم یا نه،چراکه چندی پیش کتاب دیگر باربارا دی انجلس رو که رازهایی درباره زنان بود رو خونده بودم. ولی بعد از خوندن این کتاب از تصمیمم پشیمون نشدم چون درسته اطلاعات کسب شده از این کتاب بیشتر از کتاب دیگر نبود ولی کمتر از آن هم نبود و تونستم چیزهای بسیار جالبی از رفتار مردان و تفکر زنان درباره ان بیاموزم. نکته ای از کتاب که به چشم آمد:شما هرگز مجبور نیستید عشق را گدایی کنید!!!!!!!!

  • Mahsan shahsavan
    2019-07-02 11:51

    در مقابل آقایان میشه سه برخورد انجام داد: یا میتوان هر روز بر سر آنها غر زد و زندگی را با غرغر کردن و داد و فریاد ادامه داد و یا یک سگ گرفت و تا آخر عمر با آن سگ روزهارو سپری کرد و یا زبان آنها را یاد گرفت و با آنها با آسودگی زندگی کرد

  • Mina
    2019-07-19 15:02

    رازهایی درباره مردان

  • Cheryl
    2019-06-22 12:51

    I found it to be an insightful book but at a few points I was stepping back asking myself whether or not this book perpetuates the very gender stereotypes that rigidly define society. For example, because the author said so, would a woman be inclined to honor the femaleness of her man if he had qualities from her other books and didn't fit the authors well researched opinion? I'm an advocate of any book that helps us to know ourselves better and as far as that yardstick measures my feelings about this book, it was ok. Not outstanding, not entirely revealing either but it did (as with her other book for relationships) make me question the role of gender in my life. One concern I also had was the fact that as a married lesbian, I read both books and at times, found myself in possession of qualities that, if analyzed at enough length would make me male when I certainly identify as a woman in my relationship. It is this which left me wondering whether the depth of the information in this book and her other would leave a reader more confused about where they fall as gender in relationships is at a time of slight redefinition in various social institutions. Overall a decent self help read and a good get-to-know-yourself-better book.

  • Abner Sanchez
    2019-06-24 14:40

    I can't believe some of the reviews written by the members on here. Some say it sucked, they didn't like it, others say that these "tricks" don't work.Unbelievable.I actually read the book from front to back. I read it because I wanted to see just how "accurate" this book was from a male point of view.Let me just say that I AGREE with the majority of what Barbara said.These aren't "tricks".Those of you out there who see it as "tricks" are just wasting their time.The idea is to UNDERSTAND your partner.Not just "trick" them.You see the difference?I am actually now reading "What Women Want Men to Know".

  • Lisamariel
    2019-07-15 13:36

    Review to Come!

  • Marwa Ayad
    2019-07-11 16:37

    An excellent book about relationships, better communication between men and women and men's "secrets". Highly recommended if you want to have a better understanding of men.

  • د. موضي النشمي
    2019-07-13 15:54

    أدمنت القراءه للكاتبه،،، اسلوبها مشوق وممتع لا يمل،،، سهل القراءه والفهم بعيد عن الاسهاب والاطاله.... انصح به وبشده للمرأه... فعلا كتاب يكشف اسرار الرجال

  • Mohammadbnn bandezadegan
    2019-06-25 17:39

    واقعاً عاليتجربه خوندش خيلي تجربه خوبي حداقل براي خودم به همراه داشت.كتابهاي خانم باربارا دي انجلس ، توسط انتشارات نسل نو انديش خيلي خوب و روون ترجمه شده،عين دفترچه راهنما اقايون براي بانوان ميمونه اين كتاب، كه هم اقا و هم خانم لازم هست كه اين كتاب و كتاب مقابلش رازهايي درباره زنان رو مطالعه بفرمايند، خيلي توي روابط تاثير مثبت ميگذارد و باعث ميشود انسان نيازهاي خود رو بهتر بشناسد و اينكه دليل بسياري از مشكلات كه در اين كتاب شرح داده شده و راه حل هاي ارايه شده نيز مفيد ميباشد.كتاب زنان مريخي و مردان ونوسي هم كتاب خوبي ميباشد.

  • Toma Frell
    2019-07-16 16:55

    Perskaičius į galvą šovė tik viena mintis: būti savimi ir tuo pačiu sukurti gerus santykius su vyru neįmanoma.

  • Mike
    2019-07-22 15:58

    A Must Read Book!!

  • Arezu Wishka
    2019-07-23 13:49

    یکی از کتاب های خوبی که برای مرتب شدن ذهنم خوندم.

  • Butterfly
    2019-07-02 15:59

    An amalgamation of The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right and Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, though I thought both of those books were better than this one (though this book was actually written first). It may be worth reading if you haven't read those other two books. This isn't so much bad as it is redundant (for me). I agree with most of the advice and it's an OK read. De Angelis also wrote a horrible ranting anti-Rules book The Real Rules: How to Find the Right Man for the Real You, which puzzles me since this book is so similar to The Rules: don't chase men, focus on yourself, don't try to change your partner, don't give more than you're getting in a relationship, etc. The cover on my paperback edition is truly odd. What was she thinking with that photo? Edited to add: Whoa, no wonder this book reminded me of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus -- I just found out that the authors used to be married!

  • Amald511
    2019-07-05 18:51

    This book was more about facts than secrets. If you have no idea about the other gander whatsoever this is the book to read. But if you have read relationship books it doesn't contribute a lot to your knowledge and it wont leave a huge impact on you. The fist chapters of the book tells you about what NOT to do and how man and women are different which was very interesting and caught my attention, then it teaches you the basic man-physiology and how to talk in their language, how to deal with "man" problems. However, I have felt she sugarcoated a lot of information making it experiential but sporting it with facts, explaining everything in detail (too in detailed sometimes). Overall it was well structured and organized not hard to read or relate, highly recommended for girls who never dated.

  • George Araman
    2019-07-22 17:36

    Some interesting insights but...

  • Sharon
    2019-06-23 11:45

    Yes, many of the "secrets" referred to in this book are true. My problem with this book, is once more this book is calling for women to make changes to placate the differences. Are men equally trying to figure out our secrets? I don't think so, because there are plenty of women who will put up with sub-par treatment. Maybe this just reflects where I am in my life, but i am tired of having to do all of the bending and adjusting just to have a man in my life. This book just reinforces the grunting, taciturn, cave man image that really sets both women and men back and does a disservice to both sexes. It basically boils down to women have to change and not be themselves because they won't get a mate if they don't.

  • Arwa Helmi
    2019-07-17 16:51

    Very interesting book. Dr. Barbara explained all the cases with many examples to make it easier for us to connect it with our real lives. The book starts with telling us how men and women are different, then helps us on how to deal with these differences. It tells us "you are fine and we all get through the same" then it shows why this is happening (which is the best thing how she speaks to the brain) then gives us the solution and some tricks to avoid facing the same problems again.The book is well-organized and easy to read. Highly recommended for all the girls even for those who think they know a lot, 286 pages won't hurt!

  • Tam Nguyen
    2019-07-07 10:38

    Đọc quyển này rút ra được 3 điều chính:1. Đối thoại: Đàn ông và phụ nữ không bao giờ hiểu cùng một chuyện theo cách giống nhau, thế nên dù gặp chuyện gì nên cố gắng trò chuyện, nói rõ ý muốn bản thân, càng cụ thể, rõ ràng càng tốt.2. Giữ gìn giá trị bản thân3. Yêu thương bản thân: Phụ nữ càng yêu thương bản thân, càng tự tin và càng thể hiện tốt trên mọi mặt trận ^^Ngoài 3 điểm chính trên có 1 tá điểm phụ rất hay ho. Quyển sách đáng đọc cho những ai đang bức xúc về người đàn ông của mình.

  • Saniya
    2019-06-22 11:56

    Занимательная книга, хотя читать ее я не собиралась, вышло случайно. Одна глава (как не заполнять эмоциональную пустоту), опять же, задела мои собственные болячки, поэтому, в целом, - тронуло... Многих ошибок я могла избежать, если бы прочла это все раньше. Особенно запомнилась мысль в тему: "Есть лишь один путь помочь мужчине раскрыться: он должен хотеть этого сам". А я долгое время (три года!) пыталась "раскрыть" парня, который этого не хотел, со мной не хотел, если быть совсем точной. Теперь я умнее, буду надеяться.

  • Gisslan
    2019-07-05 19:02

    When I was younger and had no clue about men (other than they have other "parts" than us females), this book helped me a lot when I'm in relationships. No longer could I misunderstand about how the men feel in certain situations. Also, this book is kinda old (1991) but these advices are still good to think about because some men behave in a way they don't themselves know about! This book was a pleasant read and I recommend to anyone who wants to learn about men in general, as every man has different needs so keep that in mind!

  • Margaret
    2019-07-16 12:49

    In the "Men Are From Mars..." vein and published 2 years earlier, this book perhaps says more about the author and her hangups than about men and women in general. It does have some tips that might be useful in understanding different communication styles, and the author does state at the end that many of her generalizations for one sex apply a lot to the other, and that, in fact, we share a lot in common with each other.

  • MaeWest
    2019-07-01 13:01

    This is my second bible...if you will! Every woman, regardless of age/culture, etc., should read this book at least once in their lives! Barbara, as far as I am concerned, has been gifted with an insight to men! Once I started practicing what she recommended in listening to men, deciphering their ways, I was getting better, and faster, at weeding out the men were not for me! For the men I remained friends with, our friendship is much better because of some of her techniques. A MUST read!!!

  • Will Byrnes
    2019-07-07 17:41

    The author starts out by saying that this is not a "men are jerks" book, and although it sometimes drifts in that direction, it seemed mostly ok to me. I found a stunning number of places where I had reactions or comments. I placed a host of post-it notes throughout the book, mostly things like "my ex did this" or "Yep."

  • Karen
    2019-06-23 17:55

    I read through this book and asked my partner along the way for his comments and he confirmed that Barbara is indeed on the right track. Easy to read and understand and helps you realise what women do wrong and why mean are the way they are.

  • Sareh
    2019-07-08 10:47

    I recommend this to all women,no matter married,divorced,single...This book helps you alot in understanding men,even your father's funny attitudes,and more personal things about your fiance,husband and...